Friday Faves

We wanted to share with you our five favorite sites for this week.  We are going to try and do this every week.  IT is a mixture of sites between Haylee and I and ever week we are going to feature five new favorite sites.

Raising CEO Kids ~ Who would not want to raise CEO Kids…You can also find them on twitter @raisingceokids

Little Fin ~ Our newest find for a little hand (or fin).  This mom is rocking as she blogs about her adventures with her sweet child that God made that way!

Foo Pets ~ Besides being fun, the entire FooPets experience is designed to be educational and help your child learn about responsible pet care. A FooPet makes the perfect “warm up pet” or “substitute pet” to make sure your child is ready for the real thing. A FooPet is a “real” virtual pet and will teach your child real world skills.

Webkinz ~ Ok I will tell the truth.. We both play on this site. You can also find them on twitter @webkinz

Parents Connect ~ This is an amazing site that has just about everything a parent would want or need.  There are games, giveaways, advice, articles and much more all for parents by parents. You can also find them on twitter @parentsconnect

Amazing Give Away at the Perfect Time

Just Recently I decided that I was going to go frugal and do it the whole 9 yards, coupons, meal planning, budget, cutting out the extra’s.   I found the most amazing and I have to tell you about it.  I have to win this because it would make my frugal living so much easier.

Here is what Julie who is holding the give away over at Free Birthday Treats Blog has to say about the amazing product she is giving away.

I’m loving this product! Invented by fellow mom entrepreneur, Wendy Krepak, the Card Cubby organizes gift cards, coupons, reward cards, game cards (like Dave & Busters), business cards, frequent flyer or shopper cards and the list goes on. I never realized how many cards I carried around until I pulled them all out of my purse to put them in my Card Cubby. It’s no wonder I can never find anything in there! So this is what I was using before - just for my coupons:

Card Cubby

The Card Cubby can even be used as a wallet. Just insert your photo id into the clear pocket and stash the cash and credit cards inside. There is even room for a cell phone, iPod or small digital camera. It’s compact size makes it so easy to carry around by itself or tuck it away inside your purse like I do. It measures 5? wide by 3? tall and holds approximately 80 cards.

Card Cubby

Yes, my old coupon organizer was quite an eye sore and I was forever getting frustrated with it because the flap would continually flip back over making it tough to hunt through my coupons inside and the snap to close it broke off long ago. With the Card Cubby the flap is much longer and stays flipped open and the magnetic snap closure easily secures the contents inside.

Can you Believe it she is giving this Cubby Card away to two luck winners….. Want to enter the contest and read more.  Then check out Julies site Free Birthday Treats Blo.

Good Child Care Signs

Hutchinson Day CareCreative Commons License photo credit: Mari & Nacho

I know that feeling.  You are starting to feel a little stressed about leaving your kids with someone besides yourself. I wanted you to know it is normal for you to feel that way. We all feel that way and even after years of your children going to daycare there are times when you still feel that way.

Since last week we talked about starting to look for child care I thought this week we would go into some signs of a good child care. But being able to spot signs of good child care will help you calm your nerves.  Here are just a few to look for:

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Once you start interviewing providers or daycare facilities, it is very important to make sure and check their references and qualifications.  Someone may tell you they have past experience but you need to make sure that they truly do.

They Follow procedures and policies
Make sure the provider follows the states procedure and policies.  Many states require a certain number of adults for a certain number of children.  You can call your states licensing department to learn about the procedures and policies regarding daycare.  You also may want visit they daycare at different times of the day unannounced to make sure they are abiding by the policies and procedures.

Positive Interaction with your Child
Does the provider seem open, understanding and caring?  Do they truly seem to enjoy spending time with your child?  Are they patient with the questions you ask them?  But most important do they interact positively with your children?

Cleanliness
If the provider is providing the service in your home does your home look clean and well maintained when you arrive home or is it totally destroyed and nothing picked up?  If your child is going to a facility or the providers home make sure that it is a clean environment and they are also promoting cleanliness.

Safety, Safety, Safety
Do the child make sure that your child is safe?  If your child is going outside the home for daycare make sure the facility or home is childproofed and that they have safety precautions.  Also make sure that the provider knows infant and child CPR and first aid.  Also find out how they handle an emergencies.

Planned Activities
Anyone can turn on the TV and let the TV babysit your child.  You need to make sure that they have planned various activities, such as learning games, crafts, and projects.  Also make sure they provide quality time outside.

Your Child Likes the Provider
Make sure your child truly enjoys spending time with the provider, if they are happy with the provider you know they are in good hands.

These are just a few signs of good daycare.  You might want to write a list of what you would consider good daycare.  Also make sure your current provider matches these signs. And don’t ever be afraid to trust your instincts.  Your the parent, and you know what is best for your children.

Do Your Children Have Chores?

Today We decided it was time to have our kids start pitching in on clean the house on Saturdays. As we sat down and made the weekly cleaning schedule we started talking about how early kids should start doing chores and what chores go with what age level. We have a 2nd grader, a 7 grader and a 10 grader.  So after we made a list of what chores go with what ages I thought what better place to share them then with my readers.

Toddlers can do very simple easy chores such as makingtheir bed, picking up toys, helping feed the animals, putting laundry in the basket.  I found that the easist way to get our kids to do chores when they were toddlers was to make up a song and sing it while you are cleaning.  Helping Mom and Dad really helps their self esteem and make them proud.

We decided that our second grader could help me set the table at dinner time, she will dust for me, she always helps us carry in the grocerys when we get back from the grocery store. She also loves to help make dinner and keep her room clean.

Tweens can start doing some of those more difficult or heavier chores.  They can rake the leaves, making sure the trash gets to the curb, vacuuming, the dishwasher, and of course clean their room and keep it organized.

Now our Teenager is a different story.  She does not want to do a whole lot but hang out with friends and talk on the phone.  We have set up for her chores she does everyday.  She takes out the trash and empties the dishwasher.  She has her own bathroom so she has to keep it clean.  She does the laundry when I ask and even helps mow the lawn when needed.

But those are the weekly chores that they are required to do through the week.  They now are going to help out with the deep cleaning that I do on Sundays.  Teaching our children to help out at a young age is very important because as start teaching them this they begin to learn responsiblity.  And when they are older and ready to move out I am

Sponsor an Animal Over at Critters Who Care

PhotobucketAnnette owner of Critters Who Cares is doing amazing things for children everyday. Below you will find her mission:

Critters Who Care is a grassroots organization whose mission is to lessen the pain of children who have suffered traumatic events in their young lives. Some of these children have been removed from their homes because of abuse, some children have a parent in hospice care or are in hospice care themselves and some have lost a young sibling to a tragic event.

Children are innocent and inexperienced in the harsh realities of life, so knowing someone in the world cares for them can make a huge difference in the way they view their lives. A simple stuffed animal may not seem like a big deal to adults but often it becomes the child’s prized possession in his or her world of fear or grief.

Many of us had regular childhoods where we were oblivious to all the bad things in the world. Unfortunately, many of the children we help live in a constant state of fear: fear of being abandoned when a parent dies, fear of dying themselves, or fear that their abuser will come back to hurt them.

This is NO way for an innocent child to live life.

Our actions are simple. We deliver soft and cuddly unstuffed animal skins to children who need a friend the most. Everything they need to stuff their animal with love is included, even a rainbow star that they can wish upon before putting it inside their animal. In the case of hospice situations, grief counselors are often involved helping the children process their grief as they work with the animals.

Completing this task is a short diversion from their life of pain and fear but the counselors tell us that creating this huggable friend helps the children talk about their feelings and their fears. This new friend is theirs to keep forever, it will love them unconditionally and it will help them stay strong and brave through both the good times and the bad.

Helping us fulfill our mission is easy. Through the generosity of our sponsors we are able to keep a steady supply of animals available for these children in need. For as little as $15 you can send one animal to a troubled child, complete with a personal note of encouragement from you. If you would like to make a difference in a child’s life, click here to visit our Sponsor page.

She has a wonderful site and does wonderful things for children everyday. Annette does this all out of the kindness of her heart and with her own money and a little help from sponsors. Right now Annette has some animals that are ready to go out but they need sponsors. So head on over and sponsor an animal. That is what you will find me doing today.

Friday Faves

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Here are My  Friday Fave Sites for the week

  • Below Elbow- This site is dedicated to support those with congenital limb differences.  Our son was born with a congenital below-the-elbow limb defect.  That is how the name for this site (belowelbow.com) originated.  Because we are Christians, we want to use this forum to glorify God for the differences he creates in all of us.  We welcome people from all walks of life and different faiths to enjoy visiting and sharing their stories!
  • Critters Who Care – Critters Who Care is a grassroots organization whose mission is to lessen the pain of children who have suffered traumatic events in their young lives. Some of these children have been removed from their homes because of abuse, some children have a parent in hospice care, still other kids are in hospice care themselves.
  • Haylee’s Heavenlys- This is Haylee’s own personal site. Read here to find all about Haylee’s life living with a little hand.
  • ABS – A great site to read about ABS and also read tons of stories about other children living with ABS.